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Single Mum: A Fresh Start for My Family

Dear friends,

I never imagined I would find myself in this position, reaching out for help. I’ve always tried to carry the weight of life on my own shoulders, but now, I’m at a point where I have to be honest about the reality I’m facing. It’s humbling to write this, but I hope sharing my story will bring some understanding and, if possible, some support.

I’m currently going through a separation, and unfortunately, I’m walking away with nothing—no savings, no home, just my three beautiful children and the hope of starting over. My kids are my world, and they are incredible, bright, and full of life. They also all live with ADHD and ASD, which brings unique challenges that we navigate together every day.

Recently, I found out that I, too, have ADHD after finally getting an assessment. It felt like a puzzle piece clicking into place, explaining so much about my struggles over the years. But now, I face another hurdle—I can’t afford the ongoing psychiatric care and medication I need to manage my symptoms and be the best parent I can be for my kids.

Financially, things are incredibly tough. I’m working full-time to provide for my family, but with rising expenses and stagnant wages, I’m barely keeping my head above water. To make things worse, I’ve been left with debts I didn’t create and a ruined credit history, which means I can’t access any financial hardship assistance.

I’m trying to stay strong—for my children, for myself—but some days, it feels like the mountain is just too steep. That’s why I’m reaching out to this community. I need help, and I’m not too proud to admit it anymore.I would be incredibly grateful.

Starting over from nothing is overwhelming, but I believe in the kindness and generosity of people. I believe in community, in hope, and in brighter days ahead.

If you’ve read this far, thank you for taking the time. Thank you for listening to my story. And if there’s any way you can offer support, no matter how small, please know that it means the world to me and my family.

With gratitude and hope,
A Hopeful Mum